Well, the way I see it there is three things you could do:
Originally Posted by elbandelero
A. Give bravenet a shot
You might as well find out what is sent with there messages, just send one to a spare email account(make sure it's not used for anything else as this could also be a good test to see if "spam" somehow gets sent to it ).
B. Keep looking
Sure, it may take longer to find something but if your not happy with something, why settle for less? Also, I recommend that you check out what Mr.Bill posted, as that pretty much looks like a little more advanced then what you asked for free script.
C. Code one your self OR hire someone code the script that is right for you.
It sounds like a pretty simple job really, anyone that has had some experience with mail(), mysql and a few other things should be able to write a script like that(Doesn't mean they will be able to secure it but it's still there).
Personally I would try all of the options that I listed above.
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