I joined your forums about 2 years ago, and if you were not such a heavy handed admin you might get more members. Nobody can even state their opinion without you removing the post.
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This is what her website is like
"join my site, join my site - but if you post something I dont like its going to be deleted, but its ok, join my site."
Maybe your domain extension should be .co or .so - for communist or socialist, because you sure dont believe in free speech.
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You wanted a review of your site - there, you just got it.